Hi cheery friends,
October started off on a high note, with temps hovering at a high of 75 degrees which made me a happy gal. It had been a while since I went to karaoke , so I decided to hit the town and enjoy the warm evening while listening and watching people become “rock stars” for five minutes. The area around the karaoke spot was lit up with twinkling fairy lights, creating a magical atmosphere that made the night feel special.
As I walked down the street in my hot pink dress, I couldn’t help but notice all the restaurants with their outdoor seating. Tables were filled with people enjoying delicious dinners, laughing, and clinking glasses. It was as though the universe was saying, you made the right choice to go out for karaoke.
Lets first delve into this outfit I wore. If you know me, you know I won’t let an opportunity to wear a bold color go to waste. This hot pink dress is such a mood booster, screams confidence and fun, the perfect outfit for karaoke.
The cut outs add a playful element that gives the dress a fresh and modern feel. It’s flirty without being over the top—definitely a great way to show a little skin without going too far!
Now, let’s get to the side slit. This little detail adds movement and elegance to the dress. As you walk, it gives just the right amount of peek-a-boo effect, making it look effortlessly chic. Plus, it makes the outfit more comfortable, especially when you’re out and about.
Moving on to the ivory ankle boots. They’re the perfect contrast to that hot pink! The light color keeps the look from being too heavy, and they add a touch of sophistication. Plus, the ankle boots give the outfit a fun, unexpected twist. It’s like saying, “I’m ready to party, but I’m also here to be stylish and comfortable!”
I love this combo of pink and ivory that creates a balanced look. The dress is bold, represents my personality and is lively, while the ankle boots tone down the pink . This creates an outfit that works in both day time and evening outings. Styling is also easy. You can pair with bangles like I did here and carry a small black shoulder bag. The bag can be hot pink or ivory so as to keep the color balance of the outfit. Go for minimal accessories so as not to outshine the bold pink.
Ok back to Karaoke! Did you know that it is an enduring pastime that brings people together and encourages them to let loose and show off their inner rock star. The word “karaoke” comes from two Japanese words “kara,” meaning empty, and “oke,” short for “okestra.” It literally translates to “empty orchestra.” The idea started in the 70s in Japan, where musicians began creating tracks of popular songs so that people could sing along. This concept turned out to be a hit, especially in bars and clubs, where patrons loved the chance to showcase their vocal talents (or lack thereof) in a fun, supportive environment.
So now that we know the origins of this fun past time, lets go into how to survive a karaoke night
How to Survive Karaoke Night
- Choose Your Song Wisely!
Choose a song that speaks to you and that you are familiar with. This should be a song that boosts your confidence and enthusiasm. If you have watched “America’s Got Talent”, then you know that it is important to know your vocal range. If not sure what your range is, then stick to familiar songs that you can handle
Some songs are crowd-pleasers and are always a hit, like “Thriller”, “Shake it Off” or “You Give Love a Bad Name”. These songs pull in the audience to sing along with you, make you feel more at ease. Sometimes you can sing duets if you are really up to it. This can add so much fun to the experience. Something else to consider is the mood of the crowd, if you care! If it’s a lively bar and everyone is dancing, a fun, upbeat song will likely keep the energy high. On the other hand, if it’s a more relaxed setting, a heartfelt ballad might be more appropriate. Ultimately, pick something that feels right to you, as your enjoyment will translate into a better performance. Remember, the goal is to have fun, so don’t be afraid to choose a song that makes you smile and gets you excited!
2. Warm up to it!
Lebron James and his comrades always warm up before any basketball game. Mariah Carey loves some hot tea before belting out her classics so, warming up your vocal cords before hitting the karaoke stage can make a huge difference in your performance. Vocal warm ups don’t have to be complicated; even a few simple exercises can help get your voice ready to shine. I like to drink warm water with a hint of lemon juice. This is a good thing on other days or if you feel like you are catching a cold. You can also hum gently and increase it to loosen up your vocal cords. Don’t forget to hydrate. Drink plenty of water to keep your throat lubricated. Avoid caffeine or dairy right before singing, as they can cause dryness or phlegm that could ruin your performance.
3. Bring your crew along!
Karaoke is always fun when you are with your friends as they provide moral support as they sing a long with you. When you are around familiar faces, the pressure of performing goes down although it depends on how you feel about your friends lol. The laughter, cheers and mockery can create a joyful vibe that you can all share as group memories. Get together with your party and talk about which songs you will be performing. This gives the crew something to look forward to and also they can prepare accordingly.
4. Work with your nervousness!
Everyone gets stage fright, now matter how well seasoned. It’s okay to be nervous about taking the spotlight and being vulnerable on stage. First step is acknowledge how you feel so then you can move on to preparing for the performance. I remember seeing former president Barack Obama practicing his speech before a mirror at the white house during his presidency . I was so shocked because I found him no natural and didn’t think he prepped for his speeches. Anyway, they say practice makes perfect ! So go in front of a mirror and sing out loud to build your confidence and also get familiar. It works like a charm. Other things you can do is breathing exercises, which are great for lowering your heart rate and calming your mind. You first have to see it in your mind for it to actually happen, so visualize yourself singing and getting applause for your performance.
5. Work with the crowd!
If you step on stage and interact with the mic only, then you will lose the crowd. Scan the room and smile as you sing. Karaoke night is special when the audience joins in so don’t hold back on showing your fun side. Dance, wave, funny expressions can make your act more engaging and entertaining. Your energy will dictate how the audience responds to you. If you notice the crowd is particularly lively, feed off that energy! Play into it, and don’t be afraid to improvise. Whether it’s cracking a joke or inviting a random audience member to join you on stage, these moments of spontaneity can create lasting memories and make for great stories later on.
So how was my karaoke night? It was quite interesting as I came across a die hard metal fan who happened to be black lol . The mood was upbeat the entire time and when it was my turn, I went up there for a song favorite, and it was………………………….Fantasy by Mariah Carey 😊😊
Are you karaoke fan? Let me know in the comment section on what you love about it
Thanks for reading
XOXO
TCF
